You deserve a life filled with cleansing breaths, belly laughs, healing hugs, and toe-curling pleasure.
And you can have it! Even if it feels dangerous. Or scary. Or unreachable.
Even if you’ve never felt those things before, they are still your birthright. Your ability to feel is locked away in your energetic body right now, waiting to be freed.
When you experience trauma, stress, or pain — whether it's a single event or years of accumulated tension — your body doesn't just "get over it," even if you do the work to process it on a mental and emotional level.
Just as your fascia (the connective tissue wrapping every muscle, organ, and nerve) tightens and hardens into scar tissue around old injuries, your pain body tightens and hardens around old trauma, stress, pain, and tension. Your nervous system locks into fight-flight-freeze mode.
This is armor. It was built to protect you.
But your body only knows how to build the armor; it doesn’t know how to dismantle it once the threat is gone.
The armor stays. Lodged in your tissues. Encoded in your cells.
And even though your body created it to protect you from trauma and pain, it also keeps out things like pleasure, joy, intimate connections, or even just a deep, full breath.
That’s why you crave intimacy, but go numb at your partner’s touch (or even your own). You long for a connection that touches you down to your bones, yet feel like that kind of connection is only available to others.
That armor is why you feel disconnected, stagnant, and stuck.
Feeling it all requires you to strip down your armor and face the world as your authentic, vulnerable self.
On quivering legs, with shaky breath, with tears, with orgasms, with laughter, with rage. Whatever needs to come out will come out. And all of it is welcome here.
In a dearmouring session, we don’t force this process. We create a safe space; we cultivate trust. And then, through intentional touch, breathwork, and somatic awareness, we invite the body to set itself free.
What Dearmouring can help with
Releasing trauma stored in the body
For the grief that won't budge. The rage you've never been allowed to express. The knots that never untie themselves.
Stored trauma can cover a lot of ground, from acute, one-off experiences to long-term lifetime trauma, and everything in between. Whatever your specific circumstance, trauma is literally stored in your physical and energetic body. This work will help you begin to let go.
Sexual healing & embodied pleasure
To open what’s been locked away. Release what’s been held too tightly. Feel safe in sensation again (or for the first time).
Your pleasure is your birthright — not something you have to earn, or prove you deserve. Whether it's past abuse, painful experiences with former partners, or cultural and religious conditioning that taught you your sexuality was shameful — this work can help you reclaim your capacity for pleasure.
Chronic pain & somatic symptoms
The ankle that’s ached since childhood. The tension in your jaw that defies everything you’ve thrown at it. The insomnia that nothing can touch.
There’s more to the physical body than just the physical body. Sometimes pain and other somatic issues stem from a root cause like stuck grief or unprocessed anger. Even if you don’t think your physical pain has anything to do with stored memories or trauma (or you just don’t know), dearmouring work can often resolve physical symptoms.
Feeling alive and present
Breaking the pattern of going through the motions, living life on autopilot, and experiencing everything from a distance..
When was the last time you experienced true joy? Or beauty that moved you to tears? Or felt truly known by another person? Life can be so full and busy, you might not even realize how numb you are. But still, you can sense that something’s missing or not aligned. This work can reconnect you to your surroundings and awaken you to the delight that lives inside you from the tiniest tickle of a breeze on your skin to an earth-shaking orgasm to the kind of love that makes the whole world shimmer.
Hi, I’m Amy.
I'm a dearmoring practitioner who helps people release the trauma, tension, and stuck energy their bodies have been holding onto — so they can come alive and feel the connection, sensation, pleasure, and joy their bodies were designed for.
I've been practicing this work on myself since 2020, and facilitating sessions for others since 2022. In that time, I've supported clients through deeply personal transformations, from healing decades-old sexual trauma and releasing chronic pain to building the confidence to launch a new business. I've held space for rage that needed to be screamed out, grief that finally budged after years of stubborn stuckness, and waves of pleasure that had been locked away for years.
Before I came into this work, I was living on autopilot. Mother of three, running multiple businesses, taking care of everyone else.
I thought I was fine.
But I wasn't present.
I wasn't feeling.
I wasn’t connecting. Not with myself, not with others, not with nature.
Shortly after losing my father, I injured my shoulder. During those months of grieving, I worked with a healer, who helped heal my body. Within a few months, my shoulder was completely healed, revealing a deep energetic connection and aliveness within my body..
The first time I experienced dearmouring work, I felt connected in a way that I had never experienced before. I was experiencing a visceral, full-body presence everywhere I went — from the grocery store to the bedroom.
And my whole body felt awake and in bloom.
I wanted to feel that way all the time, and I wanted to give others the opportunity to feel it, too. I dove into energy training because it was never ending aliveness. And I knew if I could help even one person experience that kind of aliveness, I had to try.
This work didn't just wake me up. It dismantled the life I'd been living that no longer aligned with what I really wanted. It gave me permission to reach for more of what brought me joy, satisfaction, and love. To cultivate the sensuality I’d rediscovered and keep it simmering at all times.
Now I create space for others to reach for the things they really want. A partner who hums with vibrancy instead of tamping them down.
A life change society thinks is taboo.
I support my clients in reclaiming who they are at their core, under all the layers of societal pressure and the expectations of others.
My mission is to help you clear the energetic blocks, release what no longer serves you, and reconnect with your natural vibration — so you can live a more free and radiant, aligned life.
Training & Certifications:
Somagetic Practitioner Training with Nathan Marcuzzi | Mexico, February 2024
Dearmoring Arts Practitioner Training with De'an Matuka, Susanna Beatrice, and Matt Schwenteck | Italy, June 2025